National Day of Action Against Bullying and Violence
QGSSSA Swimming Carnival
This 87th Annual Swimming Championships was an exciting and thrilling event for our Somerville House swimmers, which saw proud parents, student spectators and staff have the chance to cheer our swimmers at the Chandler pool. Hearty congratulations are extended to every swimmer, coach, teacher and parent for their commitment, dedication and sheer hard work of training in the early morning training sessions. Special commendation is extended to Mr Tim Lane, Director of Swimming and Mr Andrew McCabe, Director of Sport, for their superb organizational skills and willingness to dedicate time to ensure a smooth evening. Somerville House were the official hosts of the 87th QGSSSA Carnival, so appreciation is given to the many staff who helped out in an array of official capacities last Wednesday evening. Last, but not least, I acknowledge the strong leadership of our student leaders – Swimming Captains Louisa D (12C) and Abigail F-R (12M). I speak on behalf of all when I say we are so pleased that the combination of teamwork led to a great evening at the pool.

Anti-Bullying Policy
I know that a supportive school environment is important to parents, as well as students and staff. I share our Anti-Bullying Policy here. Please know that we are working with your daughter(s) with an age-old adage that has been used through the generations – THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK! I commend parents to remind their daughter(s) of the THINK acronym for face to face and online interactions.
National Day of Action Against Bullying and Violence
Last Friday’s campaign marks twelve years of action of bullying and violence with the theme “Kindness Action”. At Somerville House we want to encourage all girls to support other girls to be great. We need to be strong, supportive friends who want others to shine. We need all students to be inclusive, not judging others but helping them to not only do great things but to simply do their best. Peer perspective is so important in our lives that our students need to make sure the words and actions they choose help others to thrive. A colleague recently shared these words:
“Words can stick with people their entire lives, negative or positive, so choose your words carefully. Support brave girls and value their friendships. Surround yourself with female figures who inspire you, uplift you and encourage you to step out of your comfort zone.”
Mary Ehrenworth writes,
“There has never been a more important time to teach young people to suspend judgment, weigh evidence, consider multiple perspectives, and speak up with wisdom and grace on behalf of themselves and others.”
As the Deputy Director of the Teachers College Reading and Writing Project, Mary works with schools around the globe, and is a frequent keynote speaker at events and national and international conferences.
The latter part of her comment interests me in the context of last Friday being the National Day of Action Against Bullying and Violence. The mantra of “treating other people the way you would like to be treated” is a basic Christian value. In conversations with our students, I remind them about the idea of if you see someone being treated wrongly, don’t be an innocent bystander, be an UPSTANDER and speak out on behalf of the victim. Further, it is really important for everyone to role model the traditional values of the Somerville Way - values of honesty, equality, kindness, compassion, treating people the way you want to be treated and helping those in need.
From time to time, in my role as Principal, I have observed people treating other people poorly and unkindly. Unfortunately, these instances are true of both adults and children. Gossip and untruth are often at the heart of this mean behaviour. Respect is a lamentably uncommon commodity.
Signe Whitson is a national educator on bullying, and author of three books including “Friendship & Other Weapons: Group Activities to Help Young Girls Cope with Bullying”. Students and parents are often confused between the definitions of rude, mean or if it’s bullying behaviour. Whitson’s blog entry (26/11/12) helps us discern the difference between what is rude behaviour Vs what is mean behaviour Vs what is bullying behaviour. Although it is a lengthy article, it is worthy of sharing with you in its entirety, via this link.
Mrs Kim Kiepe
Principal